Beth,

Oh please understand that you are a wonderful person & you do understand that majority still rules here in America.....we all think of you as the wonderful person you are.

I am sure you have your reasons to feel the way you do, but I hope you will keep in your sight all the time that there a majority of us who:

Think you have the right to be born

want you have the freedom of speech here to enter our lives & provide us with your wonderful insights & support (only hoping we can return a little of what you give)

Know you are a caring person & that is absolutely nothing to be sorry about. The only problem sometimes is that when we care too much, we are the ones that end up hurting if we let it

feel that any mistakes you might have made are perfectly human & don't hurt us unless we let them....& that is not your problem.

Don't be sorry to need support, we all do sometimes most of the time, sometimes a little less of the time....but that is what this forum is all about.....you wouldn't have come here in the first place if there wasn't an internal problem you were needing to deal with.

The most important thing to remember is to not be sorry.....you have perfectly good reasons for doing what you do....whether the wonderful caring/support you always provide......or an oops mistake that might have been made. It is all acceptable here because we are all in the same place, doing the same supporting thing, & even the mistakes that we all end up having at one time of another. I have found that if I reply to something & the person doesn't take it as being supportive, I am not sorry for what I said because it was what I meant & felt was necessary to respond with. Unless I realize that I was really wrong it the way I took something, I will not appologize, I will just back off COMPLETELY from that person.

Understand that what you say is valuable no matter how someone else may take it & unless way out of line, you have a right to say what you feel.

Be good to yourself.....no need for apologies......you are wonderful the way you are & don't change that caring person you are. We would be lost if you weren't the you that you are.

Debbie