I'm not even sure about how to find a counselor to talk to. I was thinking of asking my husband's Dr. to refer someone. I did go with him to the Dr. but he didn't want me to come in with him.

My one problem is, he thinks he can handle this on his own, I really don't think he can. He can be OK for a couple of days and then he just kind of goes off. Plus I think he has been drinking too much. Self medicating, to take the racing thoughts away.

He goes from wanting help from me, to being nasty with me. I feel like it has been a roller coaster, couple of good days and then bad. I know it's hard for him too.