okay...you did nothing wrong...he did..you crossed no boundaries, he did. you didn't do all sorts of yucky other things..he did.

sure you are going to have mixed feelings...that is to be expected...good or bad this nut job was a part of your life...but go back and read some of your past couple of threads...he was not always a positve aspect in them.

a suggestion..until t comes back..stay away from the gym..this way your support network is in place...and he can't work his charm on you.

because he will try to weasel you out of filing a complaint..he is good at talking his way in & out of things...stay away for now.

as for him getting help himself..why should he? he doesn't think there is a problem..so why get help for it. if hew thought there was a problem then it weouldn't have reached this point..and i dare say he wouldn't have followed you from gym to gym (you don't think this was just a coincidence do you?????)

some people just need to have someone big smack them upside the head and stop them. he is one of them..and if it means taking the lic . away then so be it. ..before he harms someone who might not be able to bounce back from the damage. he is a t...he should know better..and shame on any other t who knows him and does nothing for then they are no better than him..for then they are saying his behavior is okay.

now onto the piglet....so sorry

you know there is a place called the rainbow bridge..well for bassets there is the grand buffet..a place where you meet up with all your basset (and other breed ) friends who have passed and you get to eat all the foods your owners brought you home in white boxes and much rowdy behavior happens. it is big fun.

concoct a story similar to that for piglets..what would heaven be like for a piglet...let your kids go wild..make
story book..put in pix of said piglet, etc...(okay so i know nothing of guinea pigs)

a nice book about where dogs go after passing is called the dog chapel by stephen huneck but alas..it doesn't talk about pigles

stumpy
who just spent 90 min picking up the pieces of my life dealing with the actions of an inappropriate t...who somehow thought that her sexual abuse would be okay because i was the crazy one..so yeah report his sorry butt