I haven't ever felt overly dependent on my t's, but there are times that I call when I probably could just use some coping mechanisms and manage through things on my own. My t has asked me, "What do you want me to do when you call?" I'd like him solve my problem, but he doesn't have that power. That's probably where my dependence comes in. I need to find within myself the ability to calm myself down. I'm working on it . . . slowly.