Thanks 50guy... you made some really good points... I think he knows what he wants and like you said, "it's just a matter of how to get it done." So much going on here. Yet at times feels like nothing happening...Think we are on the right track with the possibility of therapy...Thanks again for your good advice...

Now that I know the "issues" with the female tenant, it now raises issues of trust and I feel very uncomfortable around her now... I can't go into what that "issue" is now.. I just know it is pretty serious.. Actually it is about both her and her boyfriend... AJ asked me what he should do.. I told him what I think he should do, he just hasn't done it yet....... He needs to make a complete break from these folks.. Guess we will see what happens.......

salukgirl......Guess that is why I haven't "thrown in the towel" because i know there has to be an internal reason for all that anger....He really has a lot of wonderful qualities and as we all do, a few not so wonderful qualities.. If I can get him on the right track I honestly believe he will be much happier young man.....