Hi Inky - I've been thinking about you a lot. I wish I could do something to make things better for you. Have you been to the V.A.? I'm sure they can help you. They may be able to find you a place to live with your daughter and provide child care. I'm sure state aid would help you out too. You do have to take care of yourself first before you can take care others. I'm so worried about you. I just wish I could help you.... Please keep posting.