okay...you did nothing wrong...he did..you crossed no boundaries, he did. you didn't do all sorts of yucky other things..he did.

sure you are going to have mixed feelings...that is to be expected...good or bad this nut job was a part of your life...but go back and read some of your past couple of threads...he was not always a positve aspect in them.

LOL, I KNOW this, I think I am just having a weak moment right now. He is so dang charming some times and he truly is the only one I know who I can be really mad at but yet with just a look or a smile from him, the anger disappears. (at least for a little while) That is so annoying and I hate that I can be manipulated by him like this.

a suggestion..until t comes back..stay away from the gym..this way your support network is in place...and he can't work his charm on you.

I should just walk my Newfie than, she needs it too if the weather isn't too bad (for me anyway, she LOVES the snow)

because he will try to weasel you out of filing a complaint..he is good at talking his way in & out of things...stay away for now.

He doesn't know yet about the complaint, unless someone saw this here and told him. I do know he has read some of my stuff online either on this site or another one, he told me. He didn't like it much, but heck I need some support for what he has done.

as for him getting help himself..why should he? he doesn't think there is a problem..so why get help for it. if hew thought there was a problem then it weouldn't have reached this point..and i dare say he wouldn't have followed you from gym to gym (you don't think this was just a coincidence do you?????)

I am not sure, we keep crossing paths all over the dang place and I don't live in a small town either. My current T is amazed at this actually, she believes it is sending me a message or something spiritually. It is in a sense forcing me to deal with this issue. (as if I didn't have enough to begin with?)

Thanks for all the grieving stuff for my piggie. My daughter is putting together a photo album of him (she loves to take pictures). She is older, just turned 15, so I can talk to her realistically about this. She wants to be a vet, so this is something she will need to learn how to deal with. In fact I have 2 dogs, 1 cat, 3 piggies, 1 cockatiel, 2 ducks, and a pond of fish. Come to my zoo!

stumpy
who just spent 90 min picking up the pieces of my life dealing with the actions of an inappropriate t...who somehow thought that her sexual abuse would be okay because i was the crazy one..so yeah report his sorry butt

Stumpy, are my posts triggering you? What is going on, I am confused by your post, is this in the past, or now?