Hi Exoticflower, as far as former T, I understand the mixed feelings. I'd probably feel the same way as you do. Is it possible he goes to your gym (it's a student gym right? I think I've read that) because it is cheaper and that it really is not to stalk you? Have the gyms he's been going to where you have attended just cost effective for him maybe? I don't know but could be maybe just that. As far as other behavior, I guess he probably felt pretty familiar with you joking around and such. That is no excuse and I think you should still report him if that's how you feel you can get closure but perhaps he is just stupid, unintentionally stupid, with his words, not trying purposely to hurt you.