Thanks. I suggested Mall security before and he's not interested in that, but he may be interested in some department store jobs. Although, i think the problem is most aren't currently hiring around here.

He does really need to get out and just get a job cuz it will help us both feel better. I think he's afraid to do it on his own cuz he agreed to go out and apply for jobs this evening, but he wants me to be there with him. I can certainly understand him being afraid cuz he's been sheltered for a lot of years, but he needs to go out and do things in order to get over his fear.

We are going to give counseling a try soon. I just found a couples counselor in our area that will accept my health insurance. I am really nervous about it cuz i don't think i'll feel very comfortable talking about personal issues, but i want things to get better.