Can he not take any type of job while he is looking for a perm position ?

Also I met my hubby on the internet and he was also from a different area, we are now 8 years in on the relationship and have FINALLY sorted out the 'misunderstandings' we used to have due to coming from a different past ! Communication is a tough part of any relationship but coming from different pasts/areas makes it even harder.

Being black and white to each other helped ie; If I think he means something but I am not sure then I used to ask him outright to explain exactly what he meant it took time but in the end we managed to get into the habit of it and now don't really need to do it (often lol).