Hi All. It seems like it has been over a year, but it's only a few weeks. He seems to be shifting back, though I have no idea what his intentions are. I've become somewhat steeled because I was so completely devastated by his previous behavior and I'm a little nervous about it happening again. I haven't spoken with him yet ~ just exchanged some voicemails/emails. He says that he wants to be friends ~ not sure if this is part of a pattern that will have him ping-ponging back into my life. I do care about him ~ it's not that. We haven't really talked, so I don't know if he is aware of what happened or is going to tell me (or if I completely jumped to conclusions!) Any insight would be appreciated.