hi mylife,

I don't think I could say anything much different, or better, than mj or bp, but I did want to say to be careful. I guess it was the insistance that he pay for the gift and the insistance that you ride with him to the restaurant that has me concerned. Although, I have known some men who insisted on paying for everything, it concerns me when they're not bendable. Know what I mean? I could be blowing it out of proportion, but I think being careful is appropriate. Like you said, he's a stranger...

Take care,

Joan (aka splash)