I always look at the floor, his rug has cute flowers on it, at his window is just an a/c. T has only mentioned once my lack of eye contact. It is like someone said earlier he can see right inside of me and see all the bads...
another thing i do which is bad, i never wear my glasses in session, that way if i do happen to glance at t, his face is just a complete blur. I don't know if t even realizes just how blind I am without them!!!