Maybe this.

Better off with Boundaries. Better off Selective.

It's a matter of principal really. You must love yourself most of all, then allow others to love you at least that much. Otherwise, it's not as good as it could be. Entertain others but always be paying attention to whether they are right for you and good for you. And you must not regret when you use your skills of selectivity and boundary control to your own advantage - and that advantage is for your own protection and growth.

Have fun with life but only become intimate (mind and body) with those who deserve it.