welcome bowd.....one thing that I find has helped many combat soldiers is to not shut out the loved ones. when they asked what is bothering you they really do want to know. they really care enough to listen. don't hold it in. sharing is so healing. you don't have to give every detail but some of the memories. test the waters with them.

I was married to a vietnam vet for a long time. I am here for you anytime and I have pretty tough skin. I have been a sounding board for many vets over the yrs.