A lot has happened with this guy now..He had been checking my forums EVERYDAY! which I didn't find out until later... (when he started quoting things from the threads!!!!!)
Also used my password to access my facebook etc... and says that I broke his trust because I told someone a small part of what he said to me after she (who he doesn't know and never will) asked if I was okay on my Facebook wall...I didn't write it on my wall but in a private facebook message to her.

My Therapist has told me to cut all contact with him as he is volitile... not to mention as my T said - 'he violated you' - in reference to checking my forum EVERYDAY like it was the done thing and looking at my facebook mail after accessing my acount..

I guess I am writing here again because I don't see him as a friend anymore. Last weekend he told me to go and get drunk as I'm more fun... I'm an alcoholic... telling me something like that is NOT what a friend would do and it's not something to joke about in my opinion. I have been sober for 4 and a half years.... If I was going to drink the last 3 months would have done it to me and being told that was just stupidity on his part.

I think I"m babbling but I need to just get all my anger today out.

I didn't cut contact was just letting the 'friendship' die a natural death in its own way.

Today he said somethings that infuriated me... One was that I let my drinking control me and that I am in denial.. the guy has no understanding of my addiction and never will. How the hell am I letting it control me considering I CHOOSE not to have a drink.??

I'm over him and any thing that he sees as friendship - I haven't lost he has.

He's studying psych and thinks that he knows it all when he really doesn't know anything... he's only in his first year a uni and feels he has the right to analyze me...

Sorry for the babble..

I have deleted him from my phone etc.. I'm not sad just angry that he was never the person that I thought he was... it's like he was waiting in the wings for my break-up/break down and just wanted to move in.

TheByzantine you are spot on in everything you said.. I just didn't want it to be true!

Thanks for reading this guys