Um, yes. Of course sometimes life is tough.

Indeed this is about resistance to change and facing my attachment to T head-on. I have never attached to anyone except my h this deeply, so it feels tremendous that I won't always have her in my life.

That doesn't mean I don't appreciate the offer of phone sessions or agree that they will be helpful.

I'm just heartbroken. I finally attach to someone in a healthy way and the relationship is cut short. I'm not ready to leave the nest. Nor am I ready to go through the painful process of building trust again so soon...