WOW. Well, if it were me, I would keep the apt with her just so there was a chance to get some questions answered. Ask her point blank just what she is thinking about your situation and why she responded the way she did with you. And ask her what she would do if she were in your shoes. That way you at least know what is going on for certain! You have every right to know for a fact what she is thinking as it concerns your situation.