I agree with exoticflower...it's so sad that the client is the one who bears the burden and the pain when professionals behave this way. It's a lose lose situation for the client. What about the therapist? And squared, you sound healthier then your therapist. what about those who aren't healthy enough to put an end to it themselves? Especially since the unethical behavior can often feel good to the patient, fill a need, etc. even when it ultimately damages the patient. When does it get to damage the therapist?