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Old Feb 25, 2010, 03:49 PM
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People can't figure out their feelings in a weeks time...most people can't figure out their feelings in a life time. It's something that isn't on a time schedule....it happens when it happens & even when we think it's happened sometimes we realize that wasn't the case. Think he may be feeling pressure & that is one thing guys will shy away from very quickly. You are right.....it may not be what he needs either.....he may be realizing that this relationship isn't the right one for him & he just doesn't know how to tell you.

Whatever the case, if it's meant to be....you will be able to give it 6 months & he will realize it's the right thing.......or you can give you 6 months & he will end up realizing that he's better off not being in that relationship.

Relationships are not one way streets....You can't force someone to really love you if the feeling isn't there & just saying it doesn't mean the feelings are really there which is what he may have realized. Time will tell how he really feels & how you really feel.

Example.....I have been married 33 years.....not a good marriage. I realized I never loved him since after moving out I have never had one moment when I have missed being with him.......& that's after 33 years of being married to the person. No point in getting into relationships where there isn't 2 way love....isn't worth tie time or the energy trying to force it to work.
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