My husband and I have been seeing a therapist for 18 months. We started seeing her because I had been subjected to years of subtle verbal abuse. Things are not going well. In all this time I have not been able to bring up most of the issues I am concerned with. My husband uses the therapist to analyze and comment on everyday behavior--criticizing mine. The therapist talks at least half the session and brings many, many examples from her own life. She has on several occassions told us what she thinks we should do. Finally, the past several sessions have focused on discussing something that is not a problem.. I have discussed this with the therapist but nothing has changed. What are your thoughts?