Hello!
You have a lot on your plate. One of my brothers suffered from
Enuresis. I felt so bad for him. It radically affected his marriage, causing a lot of misery for him.
He did not reach out for support tho. I wish he had, as he suffered from a good deal of pain from a heart ailment and Depression.
It's good that you allow others to feel your pain. Not good to keep it all inside. My brother passed away 4 years ago at the age of 50.
Good luck to you with respect to your infection. They can be terribly painful.
Keep us posted on your progress.
~Dottie