This is totally something I struggle with. To the point where I have two best friends that get to hear all my girl talk and one of them happens to be a straight guy!

When I went to my old school, I had a few really close friends. One of them kind of forgot about me when I transferred -- outta sight, outta mind. I'll send her a Christmas card, and then she'll remember to send me a birthday card (February) and that's pretty much all the conversation we have anymore, after she knew me so well!

Here, I have friend that is simply always looking for a better offer. We'll make plans, something she likes more comes up, and if I'm lucky I'll like these new plans and tag along. There's been times, though, when she's made plans where, had she thought for two seconds, she would have realized that I wasn't comfortable going. She does listen to me if I need it, so I still consider her a super close friend, but at the same time, she can be a little scatter brained and self-centered. But then, I probably can too.

I really like what Rhapsody said, cause I tend to agree with that.

Basically, I totally understand what you're saying, and hopefully, we'll be able to find a few solid girls to have girl talk with! (Apparently friendship like that on Sex and the City doesn't exist anymore?)

Best wishes,
Ro