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Originally Posted by moonsapocalypse
Knowing them nothing will get solved.
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And this usually is how it happens. They have had these issues for what 30 years? Accepting this is hard.
But if you heal, them seeing you behaving in a healthy way could affect them, but you have to heal first. This sort of happened with me. After I healed I could step back and not enter the dysfunction. With my healthier responses, this did affect my parents in a positive way. Is my mom all healed and better? No, but my interaction with her is not as dysfunctional anymore and this is a positive.
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Originally Posted by moonsapocalypse
I want to but I'm not sure if it would be best for me to still have contact and visit during that time.
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You will be able to figure this out as it progresses. Save the future for the future.........