But Mom, all of us who have had issues came into adulthood emotionally just a child. If you don't have the proper, nurturing upbringing there is no way that you can mature emotionally until you realize this as an adult and then work on it. This is what happened to me. When I realized it I was probably about 5 emotionally. I have been working on it and I think now I am almost all matured in this area.

Those wishes make sense to me.