I would like to point out that there is a part of you that questions what is going on in your relationship with this therapist. Maybe you should sit with that part of you that is trying to speak up and ask it what it thinks. Don't let needy part of you over ride what that quiet little voice is saying. Listen to it. I know it is there because if it wasn't you would not have questioned the relationship enough to start this thread. And ask yourself would your lover be able to seperate enough from what he has invested in your sexual relationship to help you listen and understand your doubts about what is going on?

I know it is hard to say the things that we say in therapy. But you can do it again. You can find a therapist who cares enough about you to not get involved with you.
Take care,
you are in my thoughts,
Zen

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It is simple...we are where we should be, doing what we should be doing. Otherwise we would be somewhere else, doing something else.--Richard Stine