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Old Feb 26, 2010, 05:03 PM
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But Mom, all of us who have had issues came into adulthood emotionally just a child. If you don't have the proper, nurturing upbringing there is no way that you can mature emotionally until you realize this as an adult and then work on it. This is what happened to me. When I realized it I was probably about 5 emotionally. I have been working on it and I think now I am almost all matured in this area.

Those wishes make sense to me.
I guess the problem I am having is that I feel like I had a good upbringing. I had two parents who loved me and were there for me. All the reasons I have read for SI don't make sense to me because I had for the most part a good childhood.

I wonder if I need to do repressed memory work with my T. I have a feeling there is something there that must have shaped me. I don't think this could be all random.

I sound like I am in denial, but I feel like I am just in the dark. I am willing to find out what is goin on with me before I do this again.