Ke, well done dear! That is good news. Now - like you say, the next step is to stand by your own conviction and be strong.

In my view, I think the best thing is to stop all contact with her. Not answer her calls, even change your number, do not agree to see her again. If she tries to make contact - tell her you are not interested to hear from her and you are moving on. Say it calmly and politely. No anger in your voice. And put the phone down, or walk a way. If she then does not stop - warn her that you will call the police if she does not stop. I know its hard but she is bad news and you have to be the mature one and set the limits.

Do not tell her about new women you meet or anything about your private life for that matter. If its over - its over. I know that if you give her even the tiniest glimpse of chance to get into your life she will maniulate her way in. Be firm and clear.

Hugs xx