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I guess I am not dealing very well with her death yet

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> we think you are dealing with it very well eskie. it will continue to take time and grief is one weird thing in how it works. sometimes leaps and bounds..........other times it crawls.

all of your writings here about your mother are helping you to get out what's inside.

we think you're grieving at the perfectly appropriate pace for you.

(((eskie)))

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oh! brother never wants to go to grave on anniversary dates.......he says the date doesn't matter and he'll go when he can. if that works for him then swell. we happen to feel it is important on the date however if it is too taxing at the time due to health then we postpone until we're up to the hour plus drive there. still working on not feeling guilty when we can't make it on a certain date.........we'll get this guilt licked!!