you were meant to rest.
you were meant to be ok.
you were meant to be cared about.
when you say slammed are you referring to the mother? or more comments from daughter? either way it is NOT good to have these things being said when you need rest due to illness.
hopeful that you've gotten some rest between when you wrote that and now. so sorry things continue on so horribly with the mother unit. we'd pour water on her and melt her a la wizard of oz if we thought it would help.
((((kd)))))
added after posted---we KNOW you're trying sweetie and it is very obvious to us. we can see your efforts and hope you continue coming here when in doubt of your abilities as the forums will remind you of how far you've come and just what you are capable of.