I wish it were that easy. She was my best friend for 6 years and even though I can see now that I was being used and abused, she somehow had a way of making me feel important and special. She pretty much monopolized all of my time and even caused problems for me and my husband. Now I just feel like I've been discarded like a piece of waste and it happened so suddenly. I am hurt and other than my husband, who has been fantastic through all this, I just feel alone and abandoned. It really, really sucks. I've been on other message boards (non psychology) and I get the feeling that people think I'm nuts. Maybe I am but if this is how someone who's been victimized by a narcissist feels, then let me tell you.....it is one of the worst feelings in the world. I am hurt and angry and I don't understand how someone who had barely any friends when I met her can have developed so many in the last year. Do they just not see how she is? Has she learned to adapt? Is it possible that she has changed? And if so, why is she continuing to be a witch to me? People that I know who knew her from before, could not stand her. Not to mention that my Mom and my husband have never liked her either. Regardless, I know.....people are telling me to get away from her. Problem is I look at all these new friends that she has and can't help but ask myself, "What did I do wrong?" I just don't get it. I've done so much for her. I just don't get it. I miss my friend. I miss being her best friend. I think I'm the only person that she has EVER really opened up to. You would think that would mean something to someone.