Nods head in agreement with elliemay... this is in no way, shape, or form a mess you made. SHE made the mess. Let her live with it. Let her stay awake at night thinking about what she did and why it was wrong. Maybe that will allow her to learn a lesson she needs to understand. Ts can not just toy around with clients.
You went to her needing a professional. NOT a friend.
This is making me angry in a justified way - at her.
SHE needs to honor your requests and do what you have asked her to do.
It is NOT something she can undo or make right. She has already caused harm.
Please try to get a new T ASAP for your own sanity.
You will need a true professional to stand in your corner and help you walk out of the weeds that T has placed all around you.