I agree with evryone here. This must of been a horribly, stressful situation to be in. You came to her for help and she has abused her position with you. It sounds very much like she is the one that needs to be talking to a professional and she is making a living abusing people's lives and emotions for her own benefit. For her to continue to reply to your letter even after you requested her not to, is well and truly disrespectful, she is now harassing you. I find it quite shocking that a therapist has harassed and attempted to control you. You seem to be the one offering her help. If she continues to contact you, I would seriously consider taking this further. It does indeed make me wonder about her training etc, nearly all therapists are councelled themselves before working with any client and there is a good reason for this. I'm so sorry you had to put up with her despicable behaviour.