A few days later I did let him know how much he hurt and embarrassed me. He was very sorry for what he did and has been trying to make up for it. We are both under stress - him walking on egg shells around me as to not upset me has to stress him and other out. I just couldn't understand why he did what he did. But at least it is behind us now. He has been so gentle and eager to please these last few days... I guess we all blow at some time and I was the only one there to take it out on as I was the cause of the stress. I hope this makes sence... thank you for your post!