I don't know the situation and don't plan on making out like I do but I can see mental abuse going on in that house. the threats to spank a 24 yr old and grounding her too. hon my mom put me down so bad I didn't think I could do things on my own either. I was trapped. you need to work on your self esteem and find your own place. you will be amazed at what independence will do for you! YOU CAN DO IT! just have faith hon.