I was there the end of last year with my Mother....only she wasn't told anything about her cancer other than the surgeon swore he "got it all". Once she was in the nursing home....I found out the cancer was in her lungs....& I could have sworn it had spread to her brain by the end of November. I know how hard it was not to know the truth, don't know which is worse....knowing the truth of guessing.

My prayers are with you, knowing exactly how it feels. It takes alot out of you & exaustion is very easy to set in so take care of yourself too.

Debbie