I would be completely leary of a person like that....moving you & your family requires more that a kiss to make up for what he has done to you & your family. It isn't just you in this case. I would also require more than a "sorry" too....that wouldn't be enough either. If there is any seriousness it getting together on both parts, it would require some serious therapy to make sure everything is brought to the surface. You both need to be completely honest with each other in what you expect out of the relationship...& neither one should be hoping for a possible change in the other side. Of course this is based on my own experience.....but the bottom line is that if there isn't complete honesty.....you will never have a relationship that is worth waisting your time on.

Yes, I am probably cynical after being married for 30 years & finally making the move to end it. What I said above is the basis for my decision that I have made now.

You & your family should be respected.....it doesn't sound like that is the case.

Please take care of you & your family first.....if he fits in then fine....but don't try to force it to happen....& don't just tolerate something.....just isn't worth it in the end.

Debbie