our storys are mirrored, i had been with my ex for 5+ years and thanksgiving weekend last year she broke up with me, i tried frantically to reconcile with her, and ive gotten no where, shes tells me she needs space and time, and she loves me but isnt IN love with me, that she wants to enjoy life for a while, date, and have fun, i mean while am feeling depressed and hurt and lonely, i have a co-worker i been hanging out with and shes great but i feel no spark, i see sparkle in her eyes and i dont want to hurt her, which is adding to my confusion, so point is you're not alone, hang in there, hope for gods will, sometimes unanswered prayers are gods gift to you, he will close one door to you but to also open another, ive learning that now,