MissC, perhaps T is encouraging your wishes and hopes and that is scary, the idea of making them become reality. Or maybe it feels lonely on some level, that you aren't feeling that you can fully trust him to be with you as you go about attempting to make them reality? It sounds like he is helping you find your own voice because that is the voice that matters the most

I do love dreams and many different interpretations can come to me; it is interesting to explore them all. But sometimes, I feel as if my unconcious has "ratted me out" by revealing things that I haven't put into words yet.