ranger99a - How long have you been married? Why don't you see if she will go to a counselor together. I wish my husband would go with me, he is BP, but he doesn't believe in counselors or therapist.

I guess I know how she feels, I feel like I am always giving and it would be nice for once for someone to pay attention to me and romance me!

Maybe if you suggest the counseling, she will see that you are serious and want to work things out.

I wish you the best of luck