It sounds like she didn't handle it very well, but I wonder if she might have not been reacting to what you told her but just in a hurry for some other reason? She still should have made some attempt to let you know that she understood and accepted you, though. But I wonder if she just didn't know how to respond.

I avoid doctors. That way they can't ask me to do things I don't want to and don't consider necessary. I haven't had many good experiences with them, and never had an ongoing relationship with one. Maybe it would be different if we had more consistency and the trust and understanding were there.