Hi, I just posted too about my bf having a drinking problem and then saw your post. To me - there is no question about it. He HAS a drinking problem. And from what you write your husband has too.

I am shocked to read about leaving the baby in the car etc. I am so sorry.

And also - I think it was good that your parents got ivolved! why are you supposed to deal with this on your own? and of course they called him 'alcoholic' because this is what he is. He need to understand he has a problem. Its not embarrasing to have a problem but embarrasing not to do anything about it. I would explain my parents' point of view to him and ask him to grow up. Your parents are not the one with the problem here and should not be punished for it. Having said that, if he does not want to talk to him - that is his choice. Do not stress yourself about it!

Its hard living with someone who i addicted to something that takes them away from you. I feel for you and know how you feel. Hang in there xxx