The order that I worked on things in therapy was the order that they came up. You know, the squeeky wheel gets the grease? Also, you have to work on things like opening up a package. Of course you want what is inside right away but there is an order to opening something up. I would think that the issue of how you perceive people looking at you is sort of important to put at the top of the list because it inhibits you from interacting and opening up with your T. Of course you want to work on all of these other things but if you can't open up to your T then you have to work on why you don't open up first. (Just like opening up a package. First things first.)

Are you on a wait list to get in earlier with your T? How often do you see your T?