Sarah - you certainly do make some wonderful, thoughtful, inspiring posts !!! I think today is a great day to "be happy, don't worry".......if for just ONE day, we could all allow ourselves to do this, wouldnt it be wonderful to tell about it tomorrow? And once we have ONE day that we can all do this, perhaps those really hurting right now could decide "hey -I had one good day, I think I will try for 2". I am up for it ! Anybody else??????