Thank you all for taking the time to reply!!!
i told him on friday night on the phone but I was really drunk!! I know I shouldn't have done but I couldn't help myself. He said it was ok and that he still wanted to see me but that it was the wrong time to tell him cos he was also drunk!! we have spoken about it since but i'm going to see him later, so I know I have alot of explaining to do!!!!

Thanks again, I will keep u updated!!