Zenobia
I agree with what you say, there is a part of me that questions the relationship, we have discussed it in therapy and yes he knows he should tell me to find another therapist, he also knows I won't and he knows my reasons for not. His main concern is that I am getting something from the relationship that is helping me and I am, I know that it is only a
temporary thing as does he. We have to trust in each other that we will not do any harm to our partners which neither of us wants to do. What has happened is something I don't really understand but I do know I have a need for the relationship and he must have a similar need othewise he would not of let it happen, you must not think he does this sort of thing all the time, I can see how hard it is for him but it is harder to stop the relationship right now, we both hope it will run its course and I will be stronger for it.Again is that such a bad thing?