Thank you all so much for your support. I did not in fact, attend this meeting this morning. I hate it, b/c I am afraid they are going to paint me as "uncaring" to the girl, but after meeting with the mother last night, I realized (as did my friend who went with me) they were trying to set me up to the bad guy with her. I dont believe that was in her best interest, and neither did my husband. So, I had to make the hard decision, to not go. I DID however, write a note on a tiny post it, and slip it into her Altoid's tin; her mom hates them, she loves them. Hopefully she'll see it on the plane and know that they totally cut me out. That I wasn't around not by choice, but b/c they forced me out.

Again, thank you all SO much for the encouraging words. This has taken a huge toll on me and I appreciate your kind words so much.