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Old Mar 01, 2010, 06:28 PM
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BIG high five to zoo for opening up to your T about this!! Way to go!

I don't think your T would have thought it was something she did. I don't think my T would have thought that, and if I were a T, I wouldn't have thought that. I think I would have thought, I'm glad I got this reminder and that zoo was willing to share these feelings. It is easy to forget the power you have when helping others becomes your day-in, day-out job.

I might have thought, how can I help zoo be more comfortable here? How can I make it more safe for her in this room? How can I get her more comfortable with being vulnerable? But these are good things for your T to be thinking about..

Zoo you are progressing toward healing.. I'm so glad your T is such a good one and so on your side. And I think it's pretty awesome that you work SO hard toward healing. Even though it is hard to be vulnerable, you are doing everything in your power to open up and let T see those old wounds so she can help you clean them out so they can heal properly.
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Thanks for this!
zooropa