(((paddy))) I'm sorry you are going through this. It never feels good to have someone talk about us negatively. Its even worse when its someone you love. Would your partner be open to talking about all of this and, as others have suggested, getting therapy? I wish you the best of luck.
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"School is shortened, discipline relaxed, philosophies, histories, languages dropped, English and spelling gradually gradually neglected, finally almost completely ignored. Life is immediate, the job counts, pleasure lies all about after work. Why learn anything save pressing buttons, pulling switches, fitting nuts and bolts?" Bradbury, Ray Fahrenheit 451 p 55-56
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