For starters always wanted to comment on this, Love the dog in your signature, looks a bit Newfoundland-ish.

A spider necklace WOW.. sounds like he thought it would be funny, but as strange as my humor is I would never do something like that.

And in therapy I would just dump everything out then try to sort through it, I always hate when I have several things I want to talk about and we run out of time before I get to mention them all. Now when I have a lot of "stuff" I just rappidly go through it all without giving her time to comment. Then we can start going through it, but at least I get everything out even if we don't have time to discuss it all.